THAT MAN

Men just don’t realize how simple women are. You make us hard to understand.

When you don’t value us or appreciate us. When you ignore us or never express how you feel. Are we women just supposed to accept that behavior because the world of social media says there’s a shortage of men? So we gotta mold the one we got.

I wonder if men think that because we’re good christian women that we’ll forgive you after you’ve messed up and fell down seven times and got back up on top of someone else.

Hmmm
Tell us what do you expect?

Do men think that women are so desperate to have a man in their life that we all will allow and accept any kind of behavior from you? That we’ll stay in the friend zone with you getting benefits until you decide if we’re the one or how long we’ll hold off on wanting a relationship. So you keep inserting coins to buy more time.

Do men really think that a woman won’t walk away and say to hell with you if you’re not treating her right? If you’re not appreciating her? If you take the sincerity of her love for granted? Do you think we’ll get over it? But wait…you’re probably thinking that we’re not going anywhere and we’ll stick and stay with you.
My, my, my. But when a woman is fed up.

Do men think that throwing us women a token or giving us some dick is going to wipe away all of the heartache, pain and disappointments? And we’ll just miraculously forget all that has happened?
Let that simmer for a second.

I mean like we’re so in love with you that how dare we think that we deserve a man who works, handles his business, treats his woman with the utmost respect, kisses her often, makes her laugh, loves her deeply, smiles whenever he sees her or thinks about her, compliment her, tell her she’s beautiful, won’t cheat on her, doesn’t beat on her, never jealous of her, wants to grow with her, will struggle with her, he’ll always protect her, defend her, wipe her tears away and is not the one who makes her cry. That man who encourages her to pursue her dreams and gives her the upmost respect.

Most of us women put up with a lot. Most women will hold it down when her man is down on his luck. A woman will remember how much of a man he’s been since day one and how he treated her when times were hard. That woman will remember how patient he was with her when she was going through and spasming out.


His woman will remember how he made her feel when no one else was there for her but him.

When they argue or have disagreements, she’ll have peace knowing that her man won’t walk off and leave her. If her man offends her…he’s man enough to apologize and say he’s sorry. He doesn’t let time play out because that only makes the situation worse. You see that man will never have to worry if his woman will leave him because of what he doesn’t have or what he can’t materialistically give her. Because real love cant be bought or paid for. Real love is free. Real love is THAT MAN and he’s not perfect.

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